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She isn’t anti-men but a feminist
He likes men but is not an atheist
A mother but not a wife
A wife who refuses to bear a child
She pleads to choose but doesn’t want a license to bruise
He demands to be free but is not intending to be careless or carefree
They disturb your simply woven binary laws
might strike rebellious but are not without a cause
They are misconstrued
for you are confused
You misunderstand
for both nervously and courageously they stand
You question:
They give in but they don’t give up?
Seem mighty independent but need an empathetic checkup?
Indeed! They are both and then some more
Don’t try to bucket them
for they don’t fit your conventional core
They aren’t made of play dough
for you to conform or mold
No, they are not perfect
They have many creases and many folds
Let them be
Let them leap
Let them soar and let them hold
everything they cherish
every dream they fear
every one they love
every belief they adhere.
Curating Thoughts 
Betu, life is all about living a happy & fulfilling life. Leaving the world better than we found it, living in the hearts of people,being remembered as good people both by family and friends.
Whether be them conformist or non conformist.
Just remember that there are things that are not in our hands. What we can do is only our work.
Life follows certain principles. A child born will grow into an adult, nutritive or mal nutritive. good or bad, Useful or non useful. All has a bench mark by which people or things are judged or measured or evaluated.
Pandavas were good but the kauravas were not bad. Given a chance they would have argued their points & may even be convincing & right. But the world & even krishna did not thi k so!!!!.
So there are norms & the only one is will this behaviour leave our world breathing or bleeding. Can we raise our head & say i/ we did it.
If then one can then go ahead but if we cannot then restrain.
This is all that we can say.
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Absolutely! 😊
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To be yourself in an ever shifting World is like swimming in the Sea of Survival.
Non conformists move in a herd of ‘Conformists’ to a view opposed to the views of the ‘Traditional Conformists’
Individually they fail to stand by their ‘nonconformist’ views
I would much rather be an “Independent Rebel” than a Conformist or Non Conformists
Tread the thin line
A Mind Independent fearless and held High
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Well said….👍
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Thank you! Sincerely appreciate it 🙏
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